Stillness
I don’t believe that individual transformation is an end in itself.
For me, integrative transformation means
that inner work does not stop with the individual,
but always has an effect on relationships.
I believe that we work on our wounds, patterns and imprints
because we are part of a larger whole.
Because our inner experience never remains private.
Because what we do not look at, do not integrate, cannot hold,
shows itself in our actions –
in relationships, in power, in hurt,
in small things as well as in big things.
I believe that we as humans incarnate into an apparent separation,
into a body, into a story, into an ego,
in order to experience in relationship what we truly are:
connected, belonging, together.
I believe in a divine self
that connects us all –
beyond roles, biographies and identities.
On my journey, I have encountered many valuable spiritual teachings.
From them, I have understood
that I am allowed to love,
that I should forgive,
that I can truly recognise others,
that I must let go of judgements and remember unity.
These teachings have had a profound impact on me
and have opened up essential truths.
At the same time, I have learned
that this truth loses its footing
if it does not support the ground of human incarnation.
Like many others, I too have fallen into narcissistic traps.
I lost myself,
crossed boundaries,
surrendered my own dignity –
in the name of love, forgiveness and unity consciousness.
What was meant to be spiritual maturity
led to my humanity being left unprotected.
I first had to become completely Nadja.
With boundaries.
With self-commitment and self-connection.
With self-worth.
With permission to separate myself.
Not against unity –
but as its prerequisite.
Only from here does a new question arise for me:
How can unity consciousness be lived
without anyone losing themselves in the process?
How can love become real,
supported by dignity and inner anchoring?
How can devotion arise from inner abundance?
I myself am still standing at this threshold.
I do not claim to have taken this final step.
But I know
that unity grows from self-connection
and that self-connection finds its meaning in the larger context.
The silent space will arise from this experience.
It is a threshold space.
A space in which personal transformation
finds its way back into its larger context.
A space in which we take our humanity seriously
while keeping sight of the larger goal:
a more connected, more responsible coexistence,
more conscious action,
more relationships based on inner clarity.
This space invites us
to remain connected to ourselves.
Embodied.
In conscious relationship.
It invites us
to remain present in our own place
and to honour the responsibility
that arises from all inner work.
About Stillness
A meeting in the quiet room lasts about 45 to 60 minutes.
I design and guide the room verbally.
Words, classification and shared pauses give the room structure and stability.
Part of the room can be a simple practice
that helps you
to arrive in your own body and heart.
I understand the heart as the inner centre of orientation,
relationship and perception.
Consciously turning towards it can help
to find inner alignment
and to enter into relationships from this anchoring point.
This form of heart connection strengthens inner clarity
and supports an upright presence –
with oneself and with others.
The Silent Space combines language, presence and practice
into a shared field of experience
that enables embodiment
and places inner processes in a larger context.
Invitation to Stillness
There are no fixed dates and no set schedule.
When a room opens, I will send out a short notice via email.
Registration is required to receive the access link.
The Silent Room is an online space.
Participation is also possible without a camera or anonymously.
It will not be a space for exchange.
There will be no verbal exchange between participants, no discussion.
Participation is free of charge.
Those who wish to do so can support the space on a donation basis.